The holiday as a form of education allows you to form the correct perception of events taking place in any society. It is important to gradually form the attitude to solemn events from childhood.
The basics of parenting during the holidays
Before starting any event, it is important to analyze the very essence of what is happening. If we are talking about a birthday, then all the preparatory processes are performed in advance, a gift is selected taking into account individual preferences. This fosters morality and respect for others in any person.
Festive clothing is an important component. On the coming date, you need to look solemn and beautiful. The suit or dress should be ironed the night before. Women can have a beautiful hairstyle, decorate their hair with ribbons or hairpins.
If we talk about preparing for the New Year, Christmas or another similar holiday, then you should also make an effort to clean the house, prepare a festive table and other equally important little things. All these procedures help a person to cultivate a love for the traditions and culture of their people.
Holiday behavior
There are separate requirements for behavior at a public event. The generally accepted rules of etiquette regarding the correct use of cutlery apply here. Laughing for fun is inappropriate, as are other elements of defiant behavior. Fostering tact and culture of behavior in oneself is an important component of society.
The birthday boy is given more attention than other guests. At family celebrations, they try not to deprive a single invitee of the attention. Typically, guests begin to leave some time after dessert has been served.
According to the rules of good form, all the guests, including the hero of the occasion, take turns saying toasts. It is not customary to discuss tricky questions and things at the table that are not acceptable to the owners of the house. Stories on abstract topics, funny stories and funny good jokes are appropriate. It is important to cultivate the ability to listen to others without interrupting or shouting out.
Fun during the holidays
Between the main dishes, appetizers and desserts, festive entertainment is arranged so that each guest can express themselves from different sides. If the room is too cramped, then the invitees are offered to go to another room or to the courtyard, if we are talking about a country house. It is also important here to be able to cultivate self-esteem in oneself, not to cross the permissible boundaries.
In some situations, gaming activities are held right at the table - this helps to distract and switch. When choosing entertainment, it is important to involve each guest so that no one feels offended or left out. You need to try to break the time into small chunks so that everyone can have their say.
If one of the invitees knows how to beautifully sing, dance or play musical instruments, then you can ask to speak in front of the guests. The hero of the occasion can prepare the original number himself and surprise those present with a poem or song.