“He who goes to visit in the mornings acts wisely,” - this is how the bear cub Winnie the Pooh sang in a cartoon familiar from childhood. Only now it turns out that the owners are not very happy with the morning visit, and even more so for uninvited guests. Both need time to prepare for the meeting. It is necessary to gather for a visit in the right way, so that the pastime delivers positive emotions to the whole company, and does not lead to trouble. These rules will help you feel light, comfortable, and at ease, especially if you are planning a serious meeting and not just a courtesy call.
It is necessary
- - flowers and sweets for the owners;
- - toys for children;
- - necessary things for your child;
- - toiletries, linen (if you are staying with an overnight stay.)
Instructions
Step 1
Visiting without an invitation or warning about your visit is not worth it. This is comparable to a hurricane that flies into the owner's apartment with you and sweeps away the smiles of friends from their faces. The usual phrases that you are welcome, and this is a pleasant surprise - only a sign of good manners.
Step 2
If you and your spouse or a young man are invited to a meeting separately, then after a couple of such meetings, politely refuse the next one, making it clear to others that it would be more pleasant for you to spend time visiting with your soul mate.
Step 3
It is necessary to look in accordance with the case. If this is a meeting with the groom's parents, it is better to wear a modest outfit, rather than a floor-length dress with an open back and mini-shorts for parties. If you are invited to celebrate a holiday in a club, that is a different matter. The main thing is to look neat, clean and well-groomed. This applies to both hairstyles and shoes polished to a shine.
Step 4
Do not visit guests on an empty stomach, you need to have a light snack. After all, you cannot know for sure what will happen - a hearty dinner or a light buffet table as a treat on the table. A rumbling belly will drive not only you, but also the owners, who will feel uncomfortable in front of you.
Step 5
Before visiting, do not forget to buy a small present for the owners, this is a sign of good upbringing. A bouquet of flowers and a box of chocolates will do; if there are children in the house, be sure to take fruit and a toy. Children are waiting for the arrival of guests no less than adults.
Step 6
If you go on a visit with your child, you should take into account the needs of your baby. How long can he sit out and not get bored, what can he do at a party. Explain to your child how to behave, what can be done in someone else's house and what not. Bring wet wipes, extra clothes, and a bottle of milk with you if you have a baby. An adult fidget can use coloring books, magazines or electronic pocket games.
Step 7
In situations where you know that your stay will last longer than a day, pack everything you need with you. This means bring toiletries, sleeping clothes, a towel, and small items that you feel comfortable with.
Step 8
Remember that being late and being late at a party is equally indecent. You will find yourself in an awkward position if all the invitees are waiting only for you. If one of your friends is already starting to get ready for home for no apparent reason, then this is the first call to the fact that it is time to end the evening. The owners' fatigue will be noticeable by their faces, glancing at each other, sweet yawns, or by talking about the difficult day ahead.
Step 9
Always keep your taxi money in your wallet so you don't glance at your watch and wonder if you can catch the last bus.
