Many families, some time after the wedding, are faced with the fact that in the evenings everyone is doing their own thing. As a result, emotional closeness is lost, everyone feels their loneliness, and the family breaks up. In such a situation, women show their initiative and organize a joint pastime, and their husbands then look forward to such evenings with impatience and interest.
Instructions
Step 1
Diversify your joint leisure with board or mind games. And let your game be assigned to a certain day of the week: for example, on Mondays you play dominoes, on Tuesday you collect puzzles, and on Wednesday you solve crosswords. Try to choose puzzles from a larger number of pieces - then you will get more pleasure from the assembled picture. And you can also make up many other words from one word. The winner is a candy or a strong kiss. You can add spice to the games - let the loser take off some piece of clothing.
Step 2
If your husband spends his evenings playing computer games, invite him to play together. There are flash games (like volleyball or quests) in which multiple players can be controlled. Even shooting games or just logical computer games will allow you to discuss together the game strategy and solutions. So you will spend time together, and laugh, and get closer.
Step 3
If you are a fan of outdoor activities and walks in nature, go to the park. There is a lot of entertainment there. Take a ride on the merry-go-rounds, eat a portion of your favorite ice cream since childhood, and enter the shooting gallery. The competition to hit all the targets is sure to please your husband. Try to organize a joint overnight in nature or just go fishing with him. If you don't want to sit with a fishing rod, you can cook mulled wine over the fire - your spouse will appreciate this concern.
Step 4
Try once a week to discover new corners of your city, learn the history of these places, delight yourself with tea in a summer cafe and discuss what you have seen and heard. Walk along ancient bridges, visit new monuments or take pictures in the park. This will leave a lot of memories and impressions, and in the company it will be possible to share interesting facts with friends.
Step 5
For those who like to relax with the benefit not only for the soul, but also for the body, a joint trip to the bathhouse is suitable. Schedule a specific day when at least once a month you two will go to the bathhouse. You can take honey and aromatic oils with you, massage each other, rub your back, steam with brooms. And at the end - fragrant lime, mint or flower tea, which will pleasantly relax you.
Step 6
Even if you don't want to go or go somewhere, arranging an easy romantic evening at home is easy. A couple of candles, fruit, wine and your love and affection. And then your loved one will never be late at work.
