How to celebrate the New Year alone / alone and not die of self-pity? You need to take a fresh look at this event - and then the lonely New Year's Eve will be full of meaning and pleasant surprises.
A New Look
Look at this problem from a different perspective: New Year's Eve and then night is an opportunity to look back on the past year and analyze it honestly and objectively. It is clear to understand what was done wrong, what was good. And outline the path of correcting mistakes in order to enter the New Year with a clear understanding of how you will now live.
Who does it in the bustle of the New Year? Everyone is preoccupied with food and dress. Meanwhile, this magical night can bring such a boost of energy that you will not get in any meal.
You can be alone with yourself, you can honestly look inside yourself in order to understand and discover things at this moment that will help you start growing and developing, freeing yourself from the unnecessary in order to find yourself new. After all, this is what we dream about every New Year? Isn't it time to do it?
How to analyze the past year?
Take a few sheets of paper and write the headings on top:
- relations;
- health;
- career;
- money;
- hobby;
- friends;
- travels;
- education;
- self-development.
You can take more sheets and write down those areas of your life in which you would like to analyze. And write down all the achievements and failures in these areas.
And now you have before your eyes the whole past year, and now you can feel it in its entirety, the whole big picture. Surely it will not be as negative as you thought, and you will have a reason to be proud of yourself.
And then - miracles
Having looked at the whole picture, you realized that you did not do a lot, did something wrong, as you wanted, or not completely.
You and the cards in hand! Rather - one, it is called the "Map of desires." You've probably heard about visualization, about the materiality of thought and other things from quantum physics. The wish card is from the same series of miracles.
It works even if you do it on an ordinary day, and if made on New Year's Eve, this Card will be simply magical.
So, if you have old magazines at home, cut out pictures from them indicating what you would like to achieve in the coming year, and stick them on a large sheet of paper, or on 4-6 A4 sheets joined together. The size depends only on your desire.
Tip: fantasize with might and main, give free rein to your dreams, set high standards, remove restrictions. And then everything that you make that night will certainly come true.
If there are no magazines, make this collage on your computer or tablet. And after the holidays, print out color pictures of your dreams and stick them on a Whatman paper or a piece of wallpaper.
Hang the Wish Card in a conspicuous place so that you can look at it and admire it every day. So the subconscious mind will gradually get used to it, and imperceptibly guide you towards making your dreams come true.
From simple tips
Still, cook or buy delicious food - psychologists have noticed that almost 75% of people get pleasure from food, and this is a very large percentage.
But you should not be zealous with alcohol - it relaxes the nervous system, lowers concentration, and can destroy the good intention of miracles and magic on New Year's Eve.
And let only positive thoughts and the belief that everything conceived on New Year's Eve will certainly come true in the morning in your clear head!
Happy New Year!
