According to psychologists, the feeling of loneliness in people increases several times before the holidays. According to statistics, 3% of the population spend the New Year all alone. The percentage is small, however, you may also find yourself in this place. It seems that there are relatives, friends, and colleagues. But on a holiday for some reason you are left completely alone. At this moment you begin to feel sorry for yourself, to feel abandoned. … Although, if you think about it, is the New Year alone as terrible as they say about it.
Instructions
Step 1
In fact, there is nothing wrong with that. After all, this is just one night, not a whole life. And it can be done very cheerfully, albeit alone.
Step 2
Before thinking about different options for the New Year, think: why are you alone?
Step 3
Perhaps because at the moment you do not have a partner and you live alone. All your friends / girlfriends celebrate the New Year with their families, and it is very embarrassing to ask them to visit them. After all, New Year is a family celebration.
Step 4
However, look at it from the other side. Loneliness is more a state of mind than the absence of the required environment.
Step 5
For example, friends invite you to a party out of politeness, and you feel uncomfortable. Especially if everyone came with couples and you need to kiss as if on command, as soon as the clock strikes 12. And you will sit alone and silently watch this triumph of someone else's love. You probably won't be having much fun. Your loneliness will be with you even in a room where there are many people. Maybe it's time to break up with him?
Step 6
You succumb to sad emotions, wind yourself up to think all night about how lonely and unhappy you are. In addition, under the influence of alcoholic beverages, the psychological state only worsens and it all ends with sobs, calls to friends with the words: "Are you having fun without me ?!", after which in the morning it will be even more embarrassing and offensive.
Step 7
You should not treat the New Year alone as something terrible. The coming year is an opportunity to change something in life, because it depends on you! Today you celebrate the New Year alone, and next year you will have a family and a full house of guests.
Step 8
A few tips on how to celebrate the New Year alone
Enjoy the loneliness. Learn to love yourself! Rejoice sincerely in the company of a handsome and interesting person (you). Buy yourself gifts for the holiday. Buy what you have dreamed of for a long time, pamper yourself with your loved one! Decorate the Christmas tree, light the garlands, put presents under the tree. Set a festive table with delicious food, play your favorite music, put on a festive outfit. Write on paper your wishes and plans for the next year. Place it in an empty bottle, close it and put it away until next year. In this way, you will find out which of the desired things on your list came true. Call your friends and family, wish them a Happy New Year, say warm words to them. In response, you will hear the same thing, and it is unlikely that at this moment you will feel a sense of loneliness.
Step 9
Go on vacation.
Everything is simple here. You buy a tourist voucher, apply for a visa and fly to a warm country or to a ski resort. Before the New Year, all travel agencies offer special promotions. It will be even more fun if you go with a group! You will be able to get acquainted with the New Year traditions of other countries, and meet the holiday in a new environment with a great impression.
Step 10
Visit a restaurant.
This is the most popular way to get rid of loneliness on New Year's Eve! Get some pretty makeup, hair, put on your best outfit and go to a restaurant all night
Many restaurants prepare an entertainment program with an exquisite menu for New Year's Eve.
It is a great way to meet new people in a pleasant atmosphere, chat, dance and eat deliciously.
Step 11
New Year in the company of the people.
Many people get bored of sitting at the festive table in front of the TV. Therefore, they tend to go outside even in frosty weather.
And you are not sitting at home. Put on something warm and go to celebrate the New Year right on the square of your city. There, people screech downhill, dance in round dances and sing New Year's songs. There is a spirit of fun and festive bustle in there, and you will not be able to stand aside and get bored.
