You are planning a celebration. Worries begin about the outfits, about the products, about the place where the guests will gather. And who should come and who should be called - this should not be forgotten either. This is a difficult question, and it will take a lot of time and nerves to solve it. Many will give you advice and guidance. Only here you will not please everyone, you will have to argue and prove your case.
Instructions
Step 1
Try to inform about your celebration only to the closest and closest people. Everyone you know doesn't need to know about it. If suddenly someone finds out about your holiday, declare that it will be a small celebration.
Step 2
Don't let your family set their own terms. The holiday is yours, and you want to see your like-minded people there. Once you give in, and advice, requests will pour in from all sides.
Step 3
You need to think about who you are going to invite long before the celebration. One draft will replace another. Everything will change, some names will fit in, others will be deleted.
Step 4
You should have two guest lists. The main one consists of those whom you will invite in any case. The supplementary list contains the names of the others. Believe me, from the first list, many simply will not be able to attend your celebration, and at this moment an additional list will come in handy. Send the invitation in advance and ask to be sure to give an answer.
Step 5
It is easier to decide with relatives, but with colleagues at work it is more difficult. If there are no close friends and girlfriends, then invite either everyone or no one.
Step 6
As mentioned above, you still have to cross off guests from the lists. Where do you start? First, you should cross out those guests who were advised by your loved ones. Children will be the second to be deleted from the guest list. Of course, at the request of your girlfriend, or maybe just out of the warmth of your soul, you can invite her boyfriend. Here he can be excluded in the third place, and let the friend decide for herself what to do: to go to the celebration or not.
