Have you been invited to a wedding? Write your congratulations in advance. If you have ever thought of it, then you remember that it is very difficult to convey heartfelt wishes. In addition, I would like to make such a congratulation so that it stands out noticeably against the background of others.
Where to start
Remember that you will be sending congratulations to the couple. Say that now that the newlyweds are together, their lives will change for the better. Give convincing reasons, just avoid hints of household and financial benefits. There should be only light, exceptionally good wishes.
As a rule, when composing a congratulation, banal phrases come to mind. The newlyweds heard them more than once at other celebrations. Such phrases should be ruthlessly deleted. Include sayings and proverbs carefully to avoid ambiguity. In addition, the use of sayings and common phrases gives the impression that you have nothing to say to the couple. Consider this point.
Start by knowing exactly the names of the young. The fact is that at a wedding, guests often confuse names. To avoid an embarrassing situation, check the information in advance. Reread the greeting carefully. Make sure that there is no instructive tone. Leave the edification and advice to yourself. Are you twice the age of newlyweds and think that you are fifty times more experienced? All the same, you should not allow yourself to be condescending or instructive in tone.
Never mention family hardships in your congratulations. The newlyweds have a holiday, the memories of it should be bright. Few people will like it if a relative or friend says in a congratulation that family life will not always be calm. Be sure to express gratitude for the fact that the newlyweds invited you to the celebration. Say that you are pleased to share the joy and that you will remember this moment with pride.
What to do if there are no ideas
Buy a matching postcard. Their assortment in stores is wide, but it is better to purchase an exclusive, piece postcard. Add originality to your wishes. If you don't have any ideas, use your usual birthday greetings as a basis. Add poetic comparisons, it's good to include poetry. Choose those that are absolutely appropriate. Include your own poetry if it is really well written. Do not read poems like they do at some weddings. The quatrain is enough.
Think carefully about the first and last phrases of congratulations. They are the ones that are remembered best. Sign the congratulations. Then, sorting through postcards twenty years later, people will remember you. Practice at home, read the congratulation several times. While reading, pay attention to the construction of phrases. Take your time, the speech should be expressive.
