Even the most skeptical person in the depths of his soul believes a little that the wish made for the New Year will certainly come true. The magical night of wish fulfillment will soon come. However, even if all traditions and rituals are observed, for some reason, the envisioned does not always become reality.
A desire cannot be fulfilled if it is not yours. What needs to be done to wish exactly what you want?
An example of working with desire
Imagine that you dream that next year you will definitely quit your job and find yourself a more interesting occupation. To feel whether this is your desire or not, try a couple of days before the new year to imagine that you have already found a new job or started your own business. Ask yourself the question: "Do I really want this, or does my husband (wife, mom, dad, girlfriend, neighbor, friends or acquaintances) want it?" Ask yourself how you will feel in a new place, what will or will not change in your life. Write your thoughts down on paper.
If you are ready, if you have a specific plan to change your life, there are those who will support you in difficult times, there is money so that you do not worry about how to live further, and you feel a surge of energy and an improvement in your mood, then you really want it. If you realized that in fact you absolutely do not want to change anything, it is others who want you to change your life, then you can dream for an infinitely long time about changing a job from which you are not going to leave. That is why your wish will definitely not come true.
Additional nuances
A desire is not fulfilled when you do not have a specifically formulated goal.
If you have a huge number of desires that, in your opinion, should definitely begin to be realized right from January 1, then believe me, this is impossible. Wanting everything at once means not wanting anything.
If you made your wish and after that did not take a single step towards its realization, but only wait for a "miracle" when everything will happen by itself, then, believe me, nothing happens by itself. The result is achieved through actions, deeds, decisions. And whether you will act, how long it will take, is up to you.