Not everyone knows how to adequately accept gifts, because this is also an art of its own kind. We were taught from childhood that it is indecent to beg for gifts, that we should wait for them quietly and modestly. But even many adults at heart remain impatient children, waiting for the holidays and surprises. And the point here is not that a person cannot afford some thing, but that the donor tried to please the person by thinking about him.
Instructions
Step 1
If you expected something similar to what was presented to you, portray surprise, and if you knew for sure - joy. Just don't overdo it. Throwing away your affairs, unpainted lips and uncut salad, hurry to open the package. Forget about being taught to open a gift slowly. Indifference hurts. In addition, some gifts can be “used” right there: napkins, candles, ornaments.
Step 2
If you really liked the gift, do not try to hide it. Tell the donor that he fulfilled your cherished desire or childhood dream, or simply brought you joy. This is really so. If you don't like the gift, say the same, but not so enthusiastically. In this case, it is even necessary to lie. After all, the person is not to blame for the fact that it is difficult for you to please or you simply do not give out your desires.
Step 3
If an unfamiliar person gives you a deliberately expensive thing, and for moral reasons you cannot accept this thing (it is inconvenient, there is nothing to "give away", there is a feeling that in the future they will demand a return service from you), refuse without hesitation. Insist on your own: mom, husband does not allow, you simply cannot and that's all.
Step 4
Do not discuss with other guests someone's unsuccessful gifts, because this is an ugly habit. In addition, guests themselves may begin to doubt the usefulness of their gifts. Do not exchange gifts from relatives and friends, as they took care of you and wanted to please you. Suppose you dreamed of an expensive piece of jewelry, but received a CD or a frying pan, restrain your emotions and thank the person for the gift.
