Not everyone can behave in a company quite relaxed and be the center of attention. But after working on yourself a little, you will feel inner liberation and will be happy to communicate even with unfamiliar people. And over time, you can become the soul of the company.
Instructions
Step 1
The soul of the company can only be an erudite and resourceful person. Therefore, try to learn more useful things, be interested in new products in various fields. Of course, it is impossible to know everything. First, identify the interests of this group of people and try to delve into this area in more detail. Usually companies are organized either from colleagues, or former classmates, or people with a common hobby. Therefore, if you come to the cat lovers, then be ready to keep up the conversation on the topic of caring for these animals.
Step 2
Be sincere. No need to compose and try to keep the conversation going on topics that you don't understand at all. Better in that case, keep your mouth shut. But listen really with attention and curiosity. This will not only make a good impression, but you will also learn something new for yourself. Perhaps this knowledge will be useful to you in the future.
Step 3
Always be yourself. You don't have to adapt to the opinions of other people. You have a certain point of view, express it. But don't be too intrusive either. If people do not accept your arguments, you should not turn the conversation into shouting or waving your hands. So you can get to a fight. All the same, everyone will remain unconvinced.
Step 4
Remember that the soul of the company is a cheerful, cheerful, smiling, pleasant person to talk to. He never flaunts his problems. On the contrary, he tries to distract others from gloomy thoughts. Therefore, knowledge of anecdotes and funny stories from life is a must. Regularly browse humorous sites, choose what you can cheer your friends with, cheer up.
Step 5
Just keep in mind that the soul of the company is not a clown who tries to make everyone laugh at any cost. You should not scoff at others, at their shortcomings or experiences. Do not show your material advantage or physical superiority. Be kind to people and then you will really become the center of attention.
