The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not always cloudless. If you have not yet married, but are going to live with the mother of your future husband in peace and harmony, you need to find the key to her heart with the help of a good relationship. The right gift, selected with attention and care for the mother-in-law, will not be superfluous.
Original presents
If the tastes of the future mother-in-law are not yet very well known to you, but you want to make a good impression on her, it is advisable to focus on neutral gifts that are at the same time original and unusual. An excellent choice would be a personalized present - a tea set with monograms from her initials, an elegant teaspoon with engraving or an expensive scarf with monogram embroidery.
Most women will love a luxurious bouquet of chocolate flowers, made to order in a good pastry shop.
A flower in a pot is suitable for a gift from a mother-in-law who loves houseplants, but do not give large flowers. The ideal option is an exquisite white rose, a bright and delicate violet or a luxurious and sophisticated orchid.
For the mother-in-law's jewelry, you can give an elegant decorative box, decorated with mother-of-pearl, rhinestones and carvings. From other decor items, a woman will most likely be pleased to receive an expensive original vase or an elegant forged candlestick, which will add a little novelty and your presence to the interior of her room. For lovers of cute women's little things, a branded powder box, business card holder or, if the mother-in-law smokes, an expensive lady's cigarette case will be a good gift.
We win the favor of the mother-in-law
To win the favor of the future mother-in-law, give her tickets to a new performance, film or unique exhibition, taking into account her tastes. Go to the event with her to get to know each other and chat in a relaxed atmosphere. If the mother-in-law looks after herself, present her with a membership to a good fitness club.
A young mother-in-law will also love a gift certificate from a beauty salon, a beauty store, or, if she loves reading, a bookstore.
Ask your man what color his mother prefers and choose a shawl or stole in that color scheme. You can also buy cozy sofa cushions with beautiful ornaments, cotton terry towels or home textiles - an expensive holiday tablecloth, table napkins, and so on.
Be sure to give your gift with pre-prepared words that will help you make a pleasant impression on your mother-in-law. Try to be sincere, friendly and smiling - the peace of your future family life and even your relationship with your husband may depend on this.