The tradition of holding a bachelor party existed even among the ancient Slavs. True, it was far from being as widespread as a bachelorette party, and was conducted quite modestly. Now parting with the bachelor life has become much more stormy, which sometimes causes fear among brides.
What is the bachelor party for?
The pre-wedding bustle takes a huge amount of time and effort. It often happens that the nerves of the young are at their limit. Bachelor and bachelorette parties are those events that allow the bride and groom to relax and relieve stress.
Usually the bachelor party is held on the weekend, a week before the wedding, and not on the eve, as was the case in the old days. It is unreasonable to relieve stress just before the wedding, because in this case the groom runs the risk of appearing at the main celebration in his life in a very deplorable state.
During the bachelor party, the groom will accept "condolences" from friends, receive a huge amount of advice and, possibly, hear some scary stories about family life. However, if his relationship with the bride is harmonious, she should not be afraid that her beloved will be frightened and change his mind. After all, he knows that his bride is the best in the world.
At the bachelor party, young people can discuss various details of the wedding, for example, how to prepare for the bride price. If the groom is a romantic (hard to believe, but they are still dating) and wants to prepare a surprise for his beloved, for which he may need the help of friends, this can also be discussed during the bachelor party. In addition, the groom will be able to meet here with friends who, for some reason, cannot attend the wedding.
Dangerous moments in carrying out a bachelor party
In organizing and conducting the bachelor party, the groom must be assisted by a witness. The venue can be either a bachelor apartment, or a bar or a club. In good weather, you can spend it outdoors, having a picnic with barbecue.
Brides are often afraid that there will be too much alcohol at the bachelor party. However, this entirely depends on the preferences of the groom. If he and his company are drinkers, then the bachelor party will be no exception. If alcohol is not among his priorities, then he is unlikely to get drunk at a bachelor party.
Another persistent fear of brides is that a bachelor party is not complete without a striptease. This is really possible. However, if the party takes place in a decent club, then everything will be limited to striptease. If the girl is invited home, she will come accompanied by guards who, if necessary, will quickly put things in order. In any case, the groom has already made his choice, and the future wife should learn to trust him.
