Often, in order to celebrate a holiday with friends or relatives, you have to take time off from work from your boss or from your parents to leave home on this day. And the meeting of the New Year in this case is no exception.
Instructions
Step 1
If you are a young family with a small child
You will have to ask for it from your own parents - the grandparents of your baby. Therefore, do not put your family in a difficult position when they need to choose between their plans for this New Year's Eve and the desire to help you - discuss this issue a few weeks before the expected holiday. And then, with a positive decision for you, the parents will have time to adjust their plans, get used to the idea that they will spend this night in the company of their beloved grandson or granddaughter (several grandchildren).
Step 2
Do not abuse your parents' supportive attitude - if you already left home last New Year's holidays, let them celebrate this new year the way they want. You can make up for lost time next year.
Step 3
If you are a minor
Start talking with your parents about the opportunity to spend your holiday away from home a few minutes before the date - set them up in such a way that you want to spend the main night of the year not with them, but with your friends. At the same time, the conversation should not be assertive, and you yourself should not be too persistent - just indicate your desires. This is just the first step in preparing your parents to make the decision you need.
Step 4
Return to the conversation about celebrating the new year about a week after the first. Now you need to give arguments in favor of letting you go from home: you study diligently and to the best of your ability and get correspondingly good grades in school or college (you will have to try and really "pull up your tails" in your studies), come home to a strictly marked parents time, try to fulfill their requests. Identify 2-3 more similar positive examples of your behavior.
Step 5
Get the support of your friends, whose voice has "weight" in the eyes of your parents. Let a friend intercede in front of them for you and promise that he will definitely follow your behavior at the party.
Step 6
Be sure to provide your parents with all contact phone numbers: apartments where you are going to celebrate the New Year; two or three of your friends, who will also be with you at the party; parents who are the owners of the apartment. Also leave your dad and mom the address where you are going to be on New Year's Eve.
Step 7
Do not interfere with the desire of parents to call the parents of friends and landlords - let them make sure of your honesty and purity of intentions.
Step 8
Do not change your improved behavior in connection with the upcoming begging behavior - parents should understand that you are doing everything sincerely, and not just so that you will be allowed to leave home on New Year's.
Step 9
If you are a subordinate employee
Do not put your boss and other team members in a difficult position to replace you on New Year's watch. Therefore, if the circumstances are not urgent, but the reason is really significant, take time off at least some time before the date.
Step 10
Try to solve the issue of your replacement yourself before going to the boss: agree with someone from the team that he will be on duty that night instead of you. And go to the head with this substitution proposal.
