Women are amazing, amazing and mysterious creatures. It is difficult to understand them. Unfortunately, sometimes it is not easy for them to understand themselves, to set priorities, especially in today's volatile and multipolar world. There are so many versions of ideals around, where should we strive?
Instructions
Step 1
The modern woman is little personified, but everyone talks about perfection. Perfectionism is thriving everywhere - television, music, public opinion, numerous publications. Now a woman must somehow manage to meet all these ideals - to be an impeccable mother, an impeccable hostess, a wife without flaws, a lover beyond competition, and at the same time have an amazing appearance and sense of style. What to do, how to combine all this? For a start, forget about these imposed patterns. Because it is impossible to be the best everywhere and everywhere. And think about it - do you really need it? You don’t owe anything to anyone, and even more so you don’t have to meet anyone’s standards.
Step 2
Understand yourself. Decide what is really important and necessary for you. Don't put public opinion first, but your own desires. It is impossible to please and please everyone, but living in harmony with yourself is simply necessary. Don't keep running to multiple self-improvement goals, stop and enjoy the moment. After all, happiness is here and now.
Step 3
Set your priorities. Think about the area in which you want to be realized at the moment. And feel free to start this - go to the goal. But it is not at all necessary to devote your whole life to this - with age, priorities change. Therefore, without a doubt, change the goal and scope of implementation if you feel that the time has come for this.
Step 4
Do not strive to be perfect, it will not lead to anything good. If you think too much about it and subordinate all your actions to this goal, you will begin to ignore your own desires. Is it good to control yourself always and everywhere? Indeed, without control, there is no way to become ideal, not to reach this too high level set. But constant self-control leads to fatigue and irritation. Nothing can accumulate forever, so sooner or later your negativity will spill out on others or on yourself. So let yourself go, enjoy life. This will lead you to happiness rather than exemplary roles.
Step 5
Take care of your own mental and physical health. Eat the right food, adhere to a healthy lifestyle, communicate with people pleasant to you, do not be upset or angry in vain, spend more time in the fresh air, try to be in nature more often. And, most importantly, enjoy every moment you live, because life is so beautiful and amazing, and it is so easy to enjoy it.
