It often happens that the outgoing year has brought nothing but losses and disappointments, and there is absolutely no festive mood. But you always need to look for positive moments: it is very important to set yourself up for a productive mood in the coming year.
There is no one to celebrate with
This problem is especially acute for girls who have not yet waited for the same guy. Just during the holidays, it seems that you are the only one in the whole world to celebrate without a couple. In this case, psychologists recommend switching from the “with whom” question to the “where exactly” question. In the end, nothing fatal will happen if you celebrate the New Year without a man, but surrounded by friends or family.
There is nothing to celebrate
There are thousands and thousands of articles on the Internet on the topic “A million salads from nothing” and “DIY gifts from what is in the kitchen”. Lack of money is not yet a reason to refuse a holiday. The New Year was created to make far-reaching global plans. Celebrate the New Year as much as you can afford, and set a goal for the next New Year, for example, under a palm tree in Turkey.
No strength to celebrate
The pre-holiday bustle is undeniably exhausting. Mastering a few relaxation techniques or taking a nap for a couple of hours before the start of the celebration itself can help rejuvenate.
Nothing to celebrate
It also happens that almost all plans have not been realized, and it would seem that there is nothing to celebrate. In this case, you need to concentrate on what you did manage, and shake up unfulfilled plans: is it really so necessary and important for you?
There is no need to celebrate
When there is absolutely no festive mood, stop dwelling on yourself and act as a sort of Santa Claus. Become a volunteer and take gifts to nursing homes, help financially the nearest orphanage, buy a bag of cheap beef bones at the local market and donate to a shelter for homeless animals. As a rule, such actions not only increase self-esteem, but also return our faith in goodness and magic. And then the mood will not be the case.
