The mother-in-law's birthday is a great occasion for the whole family to get together at the festive table, to give warmth and attention to their relatives. And it doesn't matter whether you prepare congratulations in verse or just say a few words - the main thing is that the wishes come from the heart.
Necessary
- - prepared congratulations;
- - bouquet of flowers;
- - present;
- - postcard.
Instructions
Step 1
You have probably used the phrase "my mother-in-law" more than once in a conversation. Think about who this woman is to you. Formal relative on the part of the wife? Or a caring, understanding “second mother”? No matter how the relationship develops in your family, remember that this woman gave you your beloved spouse. It is this feeling of gratitude that should be at the heart of your congratulations.
Step 2
If you decide to congratulate your mother-in-law on your birthday in the family circle, then you have the opportunity to find out all the nuances in advance and take part in the preparation of the holiday. First, find out what other relatives are going to give her so as not to buy the same gifts.
Step 3
Then find out the exact time and place of the celebration. Being late for a celebration is a huge disrespect for the birthday girl. If you have the opportunity to rent a room in a restaurant, be sure to do so after consulting her. Save your mother-in-law from having to fuss, cook, set tables and wash dishes on her birthday.
Step 4
Choose a gift for your mother-in-law in advance, pack it beautifully and sign the postcard. In most cases, it is more correct to entrust the purchase of a gift to your wife, because she knows her mother better than you. However, if you happen to hear that your mother-in-law is dreaming of a new TV or phone, then you can buy this gift yourself.
Step 5
But the desired and necessary gift is only half the success. After all, it is not the gift that is important, but the attention. Be sure to congratulate your mother-in-law personally. Be sure to compliment her, saying that she always looks beautiful, and today she is doubly beautiful. Do not overlook the fact that today she is one more year older.
Step 6
Everyday observation “If you want to know what your wife will be like in the future, look at her mother,” arrange as a compliment to both women. This can be done as follows: “Seeing how beautiful, smart and caring my mother-in-law is, with what warmth she treats her family and the people around her, I am extremely happy to realize that my wife is like you. And many years later she will be just as beautiful, wise and caring as you are now."
