How many things have been experienced during the joint 25 years of life! This period speaks for itself. Many undercurrents tried to knock them down, but the married couple were able to maintain respect and love for each other, and the family union became as strong as metal. Therefore, silver can be considered a worthy symbol for the 25th wedding anniversary.
Instructions
Step 1
Think about the ceremonies and rituals that you can perform on this special, significant day. Start your morning with a kiss. It will remind you of your wedding day. Without getting out of bed, you need to kiss your spouse, and the longer this kiss lasts, the happier and longer your life together will be in the future. This ancient omen is called the "first kiss".
Step 2
Then, on the same day at dawn, you can perform another rite. In the old days, spouses went to the river early in the morning, poured water into a silver jug and, pouring from it, helped each other to wash. In modern conditions, water can be taken from the tap, the main thing is to find a silver jug. First, the wife washed her husband three times and dried him with a linen towel, then the husband did the same. Each bath has its own meaning.
The first wash washes away the years, and the spouses become a quarter younger, the second wash washes away the hardships and sorrows they have experienced, and the water takes them with it. By washing for the third time, the husband and wife meet a new life. After the ceremony, the jug is placed in the courtyard or balcony until the water evaporates completely, which symbolizes the departure from them in the future life of all sorrows. The faster the water evaporates, the more carefree and happier life will be.
Step 3
Following tradition, invite your parents in advance. In the old days, the ritual of washing ends with their arrival. They check if the water in the jug and towel has dried up, and only then they bless the young. If the water is not dry, they will have to wait. To prevent this from happening, the couple should get up early and perform the ritual of washing their face at dawn.
Step 4
Exchange silver rings as you did on your first day of marriage. This is the most important, significant and beautiful ceremony of this day. The solemn ceremony can be arranged at home, in a restaurant and even in a registry office. The bride wears an elegant dress, and a white wedding dress is also possible. This ceremony must be attended by those witnesses who were present at the registration of the marriage. They will confirm your love one more time.
Step 5
Try to perform the ceremony at noon when the sun is at its zenith. And if it shines on the celebration, it means that your feelings have not faded away at all over such a long period.
Step 6
If you wish, you can invite the holy father. In the old days, this ceremony was performed by the priest, again marrying the spouses. But if you have not yet been married in church, then a silver wedding is the best fit for this purpose.
Step 7
By exchanging gold rings for silver ones, you will remove the first for 25 years and carefully preserve, as well as your love until the celebration of the golden wedding, where you will exchange them again.
Step 8
Adhering to modern trends that have come into use not so long ago, a husband and wife can wear silver over gold rings. But this new trend is very much criticized by the older generation.
Step 9
If the anniversary was at home, before removing the dishes from the table, you should have yourself a tea party at an uncleaned table. Remember today's solemn day, past years, make plans for the future. And now you can start cleaning. And the husband, of course, must help his wife, thereby showing her his respect and care.
Step 10
Do not limit yourself only to the ceremonies described above. Flower presentation remains a mainstream tradition. The husband should congratulate his wife in the morning and give her a bouquet of her favorite flowers. It can be magnificent roses, or it can be modest field daisies, which the “bride” loves so much.
Step 11
Be sure to invite the same guests who attended the wedding itself. Send the invitation at least 25 days before the main event. It is also believed that at least 25 people should be present at the silver celebration, but more can be.
Step 12
Treat your guests to a variety of treats. Like 25 years ago at the wedding itself, an anniversary should not be complete without a loaf or cake, which the spouses cut together again. Keep in mind that all guests should receive a piece so that each of them can share your happiness with you! Don't forget about champagne - the first toast is always offered with this sparkling drink.
Step 13
Make a gift for yourself - invite the toastmaster if you want to get maximum pleasure and minimum problems.
