Holding a bachelorette party has ancient traditions. Once in Russia, the bride mourned her maiden will on him. Today, a bachelorette party is a much more fun, and sometimes rather stormy event.
Bachelorette party: tradition and modernity
In Ancient Russia, the bride appeared at a bachelorette party in her best outfit. An obligatory ceremony was the farewell to the girl's bandage, which was called "beauty" or "volyushka". This ceremony was accompanied by tears and lamentations, because the transfer to another family threatened her with complete uncertainty. As a rule, in a new family, she was expected to be completely subordinated to her mother-in-law, isolation from her friends and relatives, and her husband was often not chosen by her, but by her parents.
Fortunately, most modern brides marry for love and will not face any severe restrictions in the future, although, of course, freedom will be somewhat limited by household chores and raising children. In any case, today girls have little reason to be sad.
It is best to have a bachelorette party about a week before the wedding, not the day before. After all, at the wedding itself, the girl should look beautiful and fresh. I must say that during a bachelorette party, the bride and her friends not only relax, but often discuss the details of the wedding ceremony. Unlike the groom's friends, who "condole" to him during the bachelor party, the girls are happy for their girlfriend, and sometimes envy her.
Usually, the bachelorette party is not organized by the bride herself, but by her friend, who will become a witness at the wedding. In this case, the bride is required to have a script for the event, a list of invitees and funding. If most of the money is spent on the wedding and there is not enough of it for a bachelorette party, then you can “cleave it”, of course, having agreed in advance with your friends about it.
The choice of venue for a bachelorette party may depend on the preferences, tastes and interests of its participants, as well as on material capabilities. You can go to a cafe, bar, restaurant or sauna. In the summer, girls can go to the country. After all, there is an opportunity to sunbathe, swim, chat, cook barbecue, take a steam bath. In other words, different options are possible, but, in any case, the time can be spent cheerfully and even with health benefits (and not to the detriment of it, as is often the case at such parties).
How to have a bachelorette party at home
Of course, a bachelorette party can be arranged at home. This option is especially relevant if you have financial difficulties. In order not to get bored, you can hold a themed party, for example, in a Japanese style. True, for this you need to prepare the appropriate table, outfit and decoration, as well as warn your friends about how they need to dress. If you do not have a special desire to cook, you can buy sushi, rolls and other dishes of Japanese cuisine that are so popular today.
A pajama party can also be a good option. On it you can sit comfortably on an unfolded bed or sofa, among soft pillows and blankets and watch a comedy on a wedding theme, so as not to get too nervous in anticipation of your own wedding. Alternatively, you can order pizza at home or make sandwiches. It would be nice to arrange fortune-telling - not so much for the bride, because her immediate future has already been determined, but for her girlfriends dreaming of getting married.
Of course, there are not so innocent options for holding bachelorette parties: with a lot of booze and the invitation of male strippers. However, with the current fashion of capturing everything on film and immediately uploading it to social networks, it is better for the bride not to risk her reputation and future family happiness.
