A wedding is a family's birthday. And, it would seem, this is a matter of two people, a man and a woman, but a happy family also draws strength from the love and unity of grandmothers, grandfathers, parents, godfathers. A happy family takes pride in the strength of its kind.
You can revive new family traditions or once-lost customs of a kind.
You can even make "like everyone else's" traditions your own. The same towel, the tradition seems to be the same as everyone has, but you have it connected with your grandmother. It's only yours. Or glasses. Outwardly, like other couples, but only you know that your great-grandmother had them … It is such seemingly insignificant things that can distinguish you from others.
Also a very good tradition is the dowry. Firstly, if the girl is aware that her mother has prepared it for her, then she will already be serious about family life. And secondly, all my mother's strength is in him!
If there are no traditions in the families of young people, then it is in the power of a young couple to establish these traditions on their own. And you can start on your wedding day, come up with something unusual. Thus, an original wedding is guaranteed for you, because no one else will have this. For example, newlyweds buy very beautiful chests especially for presenting gifts. They can be used after the wedding, for example, by folding there, for example, wedding accessories, glasses, a book with wishes, an album with photos, a dress and a veil. All this will keep the memory for many years. And then the chest can be passed on to future generations. This is how the connection between generations is maintained, the continuity of the clan.
And yet, if these traditions are lost in your family, it is you who can become the founders of new family traditions or revive the once lost customs of your family. And then you can pass on the main family heirloom to your children - love, wisdom and understanding.
